The graduation card may have been sent in genuine appreciation for the hard work you have put in to arrive at where you are. You may appreciate your therapist’s recognition of your efforts. But if the card creeps you out, it may mean your therapist has made a major miscalculation about where your boundaries stand. Maybe that’s a conversation worth having with your therapist. Or maybe it’s a flashing red light signaling it’s time for you to get out and move on.
But a Welcome Baby copy of Make Way for Duckings? Some clients might find that a meaningful, celebratory easing of recognized boundaries. But others may find they do not want their therapy to enter the Nursery, even if it comes cloaked in the feathers of the resolutely maternal Mother Mallard. There is no right here. There is no wrong. You are free to call it as you feel it. It’s yours to own.
Do these actions feel right to you, or do they make you feel uncomfortable? Do you feel you can speak about these feelings with your therapist, either with appreciation or with vaguely concealed anexiety? If not, is there another professional you can seek out to discuss your concerns?
Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun...
A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying.
One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever..
We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc
If u want pics of her text me.
Therapy is at times very hard work. Sometimes it’s the therapist’s job to ask questions that make you feel uncomfortable. Those questions are not boundary issues and you will likely find it to your personal benefit to try to wrestle with them.
While there are some boundary crossings that are clearly spelled out and have professional and legal implications ( your therapist should not attempt to date you, invite you on vacation or give you lavish gifts) some potential boundary crossings are in the eyes of the participants ( Say, if your therapist sends you a card when you graduate from college or a storybook when your first child is born. )
I guess you’ll have to trust your own instincts on this.
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